okay bouquet

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Gwen Stefani released a new album this week, her first (non-Christmas album) in eight years. Prior to that, it had been 10 years: 2006 was her second album; her first solo release was in 2004. Maybe she has a thing for only releasing original music while Republican shitbags are president.

Anyway. In my opinion, her 2016 album This Is What the Truth Feels Like is by far her best—honestly, better than all the others combined. Still, this new one, Bouquet, which I downloaded this morning, is a pretty definitive letdown. It's a pop album but very country-tinged, in a way her music has never been; it's a pretty sharp turn in her sound. And: it's okay, but also forgettable. I'm glad I didn't pay specifically for it. This is why, although it's definitively bad for the artist, music streaming subscriptions are better for consumers.

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I finished Dune Messiah yesterday, and I loved it, even though I do think the first book is definitively better. This one feels more like an extension of it than a stand-alone story. As I noted in my Goodreads review, though, I just love being in that universe.

I also need to get better at managing my library holds so I have another book ready to check out when I finish the previous one. I'm most eager to read a recent biography of Fleetwood Mac, the announcement for which has had me listening to their vast, entire catalog over the past few weeks, but I'm still hold #4 on three copies. Dammit!

Dune Messiah was just over two weeks overdue, which had my account suspended. Not a big deal; I just needed to be sure it was returned before it was a month overdue, as only then will the library charge you—at that point they charge you the value of the book, effectively forcing you to buy it outright. I hoped that by some miracle there would be something ready to pick up even though my account was not yet indicating there was. I also browsed the science fiction racks to see if anything I knew to be good jumped out at me. No such luck in either case.

We had some pretty heavy rain during my commute home yesterday. I walked from the office to the Central Library, and most of that walk there was no rain. It did start raining lightly within a couple of blocks of the library, but since I was so close I didn't bother opening my umbrella.

My plan was to take the RapidRide G line up Madison from the library. This would have been perfect had the bus actually come when the supposedly real-time arrival information actually been correct. First there was one coming in four minutes. The time came and went, then the sign said it was coming in five minutes. And then that time came and went.

At this point, there was a downpour. Without that, I might have just hung it up and walked the rest of the way home. But even with an umbrella, I didn't feel like it. A #2 bus came by in between the two times a G bus did not materialize, and I should have just gotten on that. "RapidRide" is a bit of a contradiction in terms of two regular buses pass by before any RapidRide bus comes by—and indeed, a second #2 came by.

I knew it was entirely possible the G would come right after, in which case I'd get home faster on that, as it has fewer stops. But, by this point, with the Gs so much delayed, a huge number of people were crowding under the bus shelter with me, most of them obviously waiting for the RapidRide. I envisioned an uncomfortably packed bus, and I didn't want to deal with that either. So I got on that second #2 that came by, and walked the few blocks home from its stop on 13th & Union.

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11122024-090

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Shobhit had a Theater Puget Sound virtual board meeting between 6 and 8 last night. We still haven't had an opportunity to go grocery shopping so, at his suggestion, I made the box of gnocchi I'd brought home from work that had been in the freezer a while. It did not make for very large portions but Shobhit made a quesadilla for us to share later.

I killed time after I finished making dinner by updating my budget. We spent a total $814.14 on the trip to Phoenix—a pretty good deal, actually, for a three-night trip that includes both airfare and hotel (granted, only one night at a hotel; we had a free place to stay at Scott's house the other two nights). This was a very rare trip in which we actually ate out for every meal, so the overall spending we did while on the trip amounted to $406.13, although that includes $48 for a box of Fran's Chocolates Shobhit bought to bring as a gift (Linda was particularly thrilled by this).

All but $4 of that was for food (including the chocolates). Shobhit said this was the same amount we spent on food in Australia last year. I just went through the itemized list of spending from the Australia 2023 trip, though, and the combined food and drinks cost $690.12. That includes honey we bought at Cliffords Honey Farm on Kangaroo Island. So Shobhit wasn't quite accurate there, although to be fair, the Australia trip was 17 days, so that averages out to $40.59 per day, and that includes several instances of getting cocktails, etc. The per-day average spending on food and drinks for this four-day trip to Phoenix was . . . $100.53.

I will say this: the longer the trip, the smarter it is to get a hotel with a functional kitchen and to eat many meals there. That was our strategy in Australia (and is most places we go; the same was the case in Toronto last June—okay I'll calculate the per-day food and drink average there too: $65.62, over five days; that includes the hefty $200+ we spent in one go at Afternoon Tea at the Shangri-La Toronto Hotel).

I got the sense that Scott and Linda eat out or order takeout a lot. I never asked them specifically, but they never suggested eating in. Shobhit thus assumed that they never cook, but I doubt that to be the case: we also brought them a pound of chanterelle mushrooms from PCC, and Scott actually told me on Tuesday that he'll have to figure out how to eat them that night or else Linda would eat them while he was on his trip. Obviously they would have to cook them into something; they're not going to just eat those straight.

Speaking of eating out, something I still haven't mentioned about our lunch at Cress on Oak Creek at L'Auberge de Sedona, which I found no need to mention in the travelogue: our server, a young-ish man (early thirties, maybe?), called me "madam" more than once, even after I spoke.

My default reaction to this is always just to ignore it. I changed all my socials to "any pronouns," after all. If someone wants to call me "madam," I'll let them and I won't correct them.

I think Scott felt he needed to come in with an assist. When the server returned with our drinks, Scott said, "Matthew you had the juice, right?" It was only slightly pointed, but the server got the hint. (The juice was very expensive, at $15, but it was spectacular.)

Shobhit said later he found the food there to be average. I disagreed; I thought it was very good. Whether it's truly worth the price is debatable, I suppose. You also pay, to a degree, for that amazing view of Oak Creek. Still, Shobhit went out of his way to spring for the bill (which ultimately meant that I paid for it; I Zelled him the total cost of these expenses last night). Shobhit just can't stomach accepting generosity like getting a free place to stay without finding some way to give back. Between the Fran's Chocolates, the chanterelle mushrooms, and this lunch, I think we did more than enough to give back. I'd have never gone that far on my own, but that's because I have no shame.

To be fair, the prices were much more reasonable at both Velvet Taco in Scottsdale and Céntrico Cocina Mexicano in downtown Phoenix (which was relatively pricy in its own right), especially for how good the food was. We even messaged Scott and Linda that we highly recommended Céntrico.

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11122024-152

[posted 12:43 pm]

the way back: managing efficiencies

11102024-015

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What a "delight," coming back to work after three days off, with over 250 unread emails, and an inability even to keep up with just the fucking emails that have come in this morning.

My last Daily Lunch Update (DLU) was on Friday last week, November 8—six days ago. Shobhit and I didn't even leave for Phoenix until Sunday, which means I haven't yet been able to mention what I did last Friday night: Laney and I took Light Rail up to Northgate, and we went to see Blitz at the Regal Thornton Theater, because it was the only option we had in Seattle proper.

We were astonished to find we were among a whopping three people in the theater we went into for this movie—only one other person was there. And this is a film, despite being an Apple TV production that they want people to watch on a streamer, clearly designed to be best viewed on the big screen. And this was a 6:50 showtime! On a Friday night!

It made me wonder whether that Regal theater is not long for this world. I could not believe how dead it was. It did not look like a lot of people were going to see any of the other movies playing either.

Anyway. The movie was decent.

On Saturday, I took myself to see Small Things Like These, which was quite good.

That movie was at the AMC 10 in the U District, the first of two showtimes for the day: 4:30 (the later one was after 10:00). And there were at least 37 people at that movie, including myself—in that screening room, that was 55% capacity. And that was for this movie, an indie drama about forced labor of unwed pregnant young women in 80s Ireland. Never in a million years would I have expected this movie to be so popular, especially in the current cinema industry landscape. Why were so many people going to see this one, and no one going to Blitz? Talk about bizarre.

According to Box Office Mojo, Small Things Like These has barely made more than half a million dollars domestically; it's made $3.4 million worldwide. Blitz doesn't even have a domestic box office figure yet—it was given a very limited release for Oscar qualification—and has earned barely more than half a million worldwide. Neither movie, of course, made the domestic top 10 last weekend, although even at that modest number Small Things Like These ranked #14.

In any event, the theater was so crowded at Small Things Like These on Saturday that, until the movie actually began, I really wondered if I had mistakenly gone into the wrong theater. Nope.

A couple had booked seats directly to my right, well after I had booked mine. So many other seats, they could have at least put a buffer seat between us. What a couple of pyschos.

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11102024-064

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Much of Saturday was otherwise spent doing laundry and finishing what packing could be done before Sunday morning. We caught the bus just before 7:00 Sunday morning down to Westlake Center, where we had to transfer to a shuttle bus rather than catch Light Rail there, a bit of an annoyance as Light Rail stations were closed between Westlake and Stadium Stations for maintenance work over the weekend. The shuttle bus took us down to SoDo Station, where we were finally able to get on the train that took us to the airport.

And: I already posted the blog version of my email travelogue detailing the entire trip to Phoenix, which was indeed a lot of fun. Now I have at-home vacations to look forward to both over Thanksgiving Week (the week after next) and the week prior to Christmas precisely five weeks from now; and then my Birth Week at the end of April. Beyond that, it's wide open, and we now have no travel plans solidified at all. I do aim to visit Barbara again in Louisville next year, and it's possible that could happen before my Birth Week, so there's that.

Anyway. Shobhit and I had considered taking the bus into downtown Phoenix yesterday morning before we had to head to the airport around 1:00, but: we had already done this for dinner the night before; and we had to check out of the hotel by 11:00, where they quite annoyingly did not offer the service of storing luggage for you. This might be the first hotel I've ever been to that would not do that.

This meant we had to be out of there, with all our bags, by 11:00. So basically we just said "fuck it" and headed to the airport on the shuttle (at least the hotel had that; this was SureStay by Best Western Phoenix Airport, so it would make sense) right around that time. This gave us plenty of time to spend a leisurely morning at the hotel, going up to the office building by the road to get our free continental breakfast (nothing special, but workable: bagels, doughnuts, fruit, yogurt, toast, cereal—Shobhit was disappointed there were no eggs), which we did before I even took my shower, which is rare for me.

This also meant we were at the airport at around 11:15, a solid five hours before our flight was even scheduled to leave. Shobhit knew it was a long shot but still checked to see if there was any way we could get onto an earlier flight; there was only one such flight and it was full.

You'd think this would be an agonizing bore, spending all that time at the airport, but in the end it worked out beautifully for me. There is free wifi at the airport, and this gave me ample time to write up my email travelogue. These emails take me hours to get done, and I wasn't even done by the time we were boarding our plane.

Thankfully, Delta seems to have changed its in-flight wifi policy. In the past you could only get free wifi if you were a T-Mobile customer, which I am not. Now, if you log in with your frequent flier number, you can use the wifi. I did just that, and I must have spent at least a solid two hours more, on the flight, finishing up the travelogue. I had it emailed out while we were still in the air. Gmail indicated at the time that it was sent at 5:51 pm; now that I am back in the Pacific Time Zone, it's saying it was sent at 4:51.

It's a separate process to convert these emails to something I can post to this blog, as I have to add a ton of html commands, both for things like paragraph breaks and for embedded photos and hyperlinks and such. I managed to finish that, and get it posed to my blog, with minutes to spare before we touched down at SeatTac yesterday evening.

I brought my library book with me on this trip, but any time someone else would be reading (like Shobhit: he spent most of the flight yesterday with his library book), I would be either processing photos—which as I did daily as the trip went on—or working on the travelogue. I finally got back to my book on the Light Rail back fro SeaTac last night; I have finally finished Dune Messiah as of the end of my lunch break today.

It was really great to have the travelogue done before I even got home—I love managing efficiencies! It gave us time to eat dinner and finally watch the excellent season finale to The Penguin last night (while Action Movie Night was happening, but we didn't want to be rushing right into that the minute we got home). I deliberately made sure I had no plans tonight just in case I'd need to work on this, and now I don't; it's still nice to have a free evening. I may work on the calendars for Christmas, which I am actually getting relatively close to finally getting done.

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[posted 12:22 pm]