honorarium

02032026-01

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Another quiet evening at home alone last night, being the second night of The Foreigner rehearsals for Shobhit, albeit this time in Tacoma rather than Olympia. Shobhit came in to use the bathroom this morning while I was getting ready, which gave me a minute to ask about how the first two rehearsals went. He said they went well, although so far they have just sat at tables running through the play.

He did tell me tonight's rehearsal got canceled. He still needs to drive down for a costume fitting this afternoon. Had I known this would happen I would have considered changing my movie plans with Laney so Shobhit and I could go see Wuthering Heights, which I am still hoping to see tomorrow night but we'll see. As it stands, maybe Shobhit can meet me when this evening's relatively early showing ends (we had to book the 3:30 showtime today) and go check out the Belltown Art Walk, which would give Shobhit a lot of steps to get in.

Anyway, I filled up my entire evening watching either TV (this week's episode of The Pitt, an unusually pointed acknowledgment of nurses this week, which I am sure was appreciated in spite of it being a little forced and heavy handed at times) or a movie (I watched a bunch of, but still have not finished, the HBO documentary Mel Brooks: The 99 Year Old Man!).

Watching that documentary had me trying to research previous times I have seen his films—I was surprised to discover he has only directed 11, and the last one was in 1995. I always had deep ambivalence about Blazing Saddles and thought I would never want to watch it again, but the clips they showed here really made me laugh, and I'm not sure I realized it was co-written by Richard Pryor, which does give it new context.

On the other hand, plenty of clips from other movies really made me laugh too, and I have long had issues with the pacing in Mel Brooks films; it's easy to make things look hilarious when you're showing clips, and quite different when you're sitting through a full movie. I can't decide whether I should give Blazing Saddles another look or not. I know the last time I saw History of the World Part I I didn't think it was nearly as good, or as funny, as I remembered it.

Anyway, when I got to Robin Hood: Men in Tights in his filmography (and I have not yet gotten this far in the documentary), I remembered that I saw that with Lynn during its original theatrical run, in 1993. It occurred to me that I could find the exact date I saw it, in my written journals, and I found it: September 5, 1993. This was after opening on July 28, almost six weeks later. Boy have theatrical windows changed—any movie would get less time in theaters today, unless it were a giant blockbuster like Avatar, but especially a spoof movie like this would get just a couple of weeks at best.

I had completely forgotten that the day we went to see that movie was also the day I first met Lynn in person, after two years of writing exclusively in Spanish in an antra-high school Spanish class pen pal program. It was also when I met her asshole boyfriend Gary, the father of her first child and also her first husband. Zephyr is actually her third, but they've been together for 20 years—my oldest photo of him is from 2006! He's far outlasted anyone else Lynn has ever been with.

It was weirdly amusing to re-read that journal entry. It's pretty dull in terms of narrative and details, but it cracked me up that I said Gary "seemed to look like an asshole" (turned out he was one), and how "mature" Lynn seemed to me at the time. Really she was just fairly quiet and reserved, which I interpreted as "mature."

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05032025-56

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I just had my biweekly Zoom lunch with Karen, which I was unusually excited about because I was dying to hear about her recent trip to Belgium, where she received an honorary doctorate from KU Leuven. By sheer chance, LinkedIn emailed me a link to her post about the experience, in which she shared the YouTube link to her acceptance speech, which I found very moving. Note that it begins with a few introductory minutes that are not in English, though they do include several photos of Karen throughout her life. But, the video of her taking the stage and giving a short speech starts at about the 3:45 mark, and that of course is in English.

She acknowledges herself at the beginning of her speech how quite visibly emotional she is about receiving this honor, and that gratitude alone was very moving to me. But she absolutely, deeply deserves it.

And we did spend a good majority of the hour with her telling me about the trip, which sounded absolutely amazing—the one exception being that the coworker she traveled there with had one of her rolling bags snatched right out from under them at a train station on their way to an excursion to Brussels on the EuroStar train. Shobhit and I plan to take this train a lot, so although this really sucked for Karen's friend Joyce, it'll be a lesson for us: don't spend a lot of time at the train stations (which Karen had already been told are apparently notroious for pickpocketing) but also while at them keep a tight hold on all bags and luggage. Shobhit and I will need to be very conscientious about the mobility of the luggage we bring with us, something we have actually not thought a whole lot about thus far. I think as long as we're diligent, though, we'll be fine.

I sure feel bad for Joyce, though. That bag had all of her electronics and all the gifts she had bought to bring home. At least she had her phone and passport and money securly on her body.

At the very end of the hour, I thought to tell Karen that Shobhit and I are leaning toward making our anniversary trip in 2027 to Provincetown—which is in the state she grew up in, right on Cape Cod in fact. She agreed that planning to take transit from the airport to the Boston waterfront and then taking the ferry to Provincetown was far smarter than picking up a car and driving all the way around the cape. I'm thinking we might want to fold in a few days in Boston anyway.

But now I need to post this because I really need to pee.

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02032026-02

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power users

01302026-16

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Shobhit's first rehearsal for The Foreigner was last night. I haven't had a chance yet to ask him how it went, as it was in Olympia at the venue where the play will be performed (the State Theater, downtown) and I was asleep by the time he got home. I don't even have a clue what time he got home. I did make the second of the two take-and-bake pizzas we had from the PCC Deli from when they had a BOGO sale; I left his four slices out for him to eat, and I kept two of my slices to have for dinner tonight. I'm not sure what he'll do for dinner tonight; maybe he'll make something before he leaves today.

He has rehearsal tonight as well, but starting tonight, the rehearsal venue is in Tacoma, at least until March 1 when they shift to the State Theater again. I just realized Opening Night is three weeks from tomorrow, which means he has that much time to get off book on the script.

I guess most of the actors cast are not actually from Olympia, and are coming from places like Tacoma or Seattle. This is a big reason for a lot of rehearsals over the next two weeks being in Tacoma instead of Olympia. For Shobhit, Tacoma is still far, but at least it's half the distance. They're rehearsing in a space called "The Spire," which I discovered today is a 100-year-old church turned into a performance venue (that article calls it 89 years old, but that was published in 2015; the building was constructed in 1926). I find this kind of fascinating.

Anyway, he has rehearsal there tonight and tomorrow night 6:00 - 11:00, and on Saturday 12-6. If I see him tonight or tomorrow night in both cases it will be brief. I probably won't see him at all tomorrow night as I'm seeing a movie with Laney after work, albeit a rather early one at 3:30 (which, due to trailers, won't actually start until 4:00; I plan to leave work at 3:45). He has rehearsal on Sunday as well but that one's at a TPS theater studio here in Seattle, at Seattle Center.

It's very unclear what we'll do for Valentine's Day, if anything, this year. I really hoped I could get him to go see Wuthering Heights with me but that's super iffy. He probably won't even get home until around 7:00 and may not be up for going out.

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11282020-25

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What else can I tell you? I was home alone all evening last night, which I already noted in last night's post about the Seahawks Victory Parade. Between that and captioning all the photos, that pretty much took up my entire evening.

I did take a break from that work to chop vegetables for the pizza. I listened to Stevie Nicks. I listened to podcasts.

I'm really getting into the novel I'm reading, called Bury Your Gays by Chuck Tingle. This was one of the recommendations I got by using the "Your Next Five Books" feature at the Seattle Public Library, which so far is working spectacularly well for me. I can't recommend this service enough! This particular book is basically horror, with some lightly comic elements, but it's about a gay script writer in Hollywood who is nominated for an Oscar and his past horror monster creations have been manifested and are coming after him. I don't typically go for horror—and the chapter I just read was particularly gruesome—but everything else about it is practically tailor made for me. I'm not yet ready to rave about the book as a complete work because I am waiting to see how well it sticks the landing in the end. But, so far so good!

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Oh. I guess I could tell you I just had what I like to call a "Power User Lunch," with Cathryn and Amanda—because we are the three biggest "power users" of Retalix HQ (commonly referred to as just "HQ"), the item maintenance system we use here at work. Amanda was here yesterday and left at 3:30 because she thought she wasn't feeling well, so I wondered if the lunch would happen today. Well, she must be feeling well enough because she did come in today.

She left it to Cathryn and me to decide on where to go. Cathryn asked me if I had any ideas. Well, I keep eyeing this "Freya's Bakery & Cafe" right across the street from Rainier Square on 5th and Union so I suggested we go there. It was kind of expensive, which was why I skipped the veggie breakfast croissant sandwich I really wanted because it was fucking $18, and instead got the slice of veggie quiche which was $9.50—and, I have to admit, maybe the best quiche I had ever had. Or at the very least, I've never had better. I can usually take it or leave it when it comes to quiche but this was amazing. When we left I said, "I'd come back just for that quiche. And I've never said that about quiche."

We hadn't had a "Power User Lunch" since before the office move last September; this was our first at the new location—and, indeed, my first time going out for lunch since the move, that I can recall off the top of my head right now anyway. It was lovely, as I really like both Cathryn and Amanda and we make a great team, which means it's also fun to hang out outside of work.

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02112026-06

[posted 12:59pm]