better off born

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— छह हज़ार एक सौ पच्चीस —

Last night was Shobhit's and my first time back to Action Movie Night in four weeks, because we missed the last one to go see a play. Plus, it was Greg's turn to choose the movie; his choice history suggested it would be a movie I would not at all be into; his choice indicated on the Movie List, Chronicles of Riddick, bears that out. Shobhit and I definitely had a better time at the play.

This week, the choice was Tony's. His history is much better; historically, he has good taste in movies. Well, this week he chose a favorite from his youth, a teen comedy from 1985 called Better Off Dead.

I did start to recognize it a few scenes into it. I thought: Is this the "I want my two dollars" movie? Indeed, it was. This brought back memories of my sister, Gina, referencing the movie once, ages ago, quoting that very line: "I want my two dollars!"

I'm all for absurdist humor, which is what this movie is all about—when it's done well. Maybe it was a newer concept in 1985 and could get away with that sure comes across as filmmaking laziness now, I don't know. I do know it's very much a time capsule of mid-eighties entertainment, the kind of stuff that would never get made today nor resonate with audiences. But many, many people love this movie. I do not.

Neither did Shobhit. When we all filed out of the theater and into the kitchen, he said, "I didn't care for that movie, I'm sorry." Tony, who told us all when he started the movie that he has probably seen this movie the second-most number of times (after The Big Lebowski—which, according to the Movie List, was something the group saw on a "Field Trip" in 2014; I should ask Tony about this), laughed and replied, "I appreciate the honesty."

This makes me think of The Goonies, which I have long felt does not hold up nearly as much as its adorers think it does. It was one the last "zeitgeisty" American movies I introduced Shobhit to, and the verdict in the end was: that actually wasn't that great. This came up this week with Frank at work, who said he'd be watching it with his 21-year-old son who wanted to see it, even though Frank had made it this far in live without ever having to. The next day he informed me my assessment was right. This is the case with a lot of eighties so-called "classics," I think.

Anyway here is this week's Action Movie Night had 11 in attendance, a more sizable group than we've had in a while: Tony, Jake, Ryan, Chris B, Derek, Andrew, Daniel, Brian, Dylan, Shobhit, and me. One of these guys is very young and very cute—younger than I realized, even: I was informed later that he's 21. Yikes, he's barely more than a kid. Did the rest of us seem like geezers to him? That's just my age-insecurity talking; he seemed to have a perfectly good time.

He was also a vegetarian, but he ate before arriving. I don't think anyone mentioned there are other vegetarians in the group (Shobhit and me), though as always we noted that the gnocchi with vegetables and a cheesy pesto sauce Shobhit made was vegetarian. I wonder if the kid was vegan? He only said he was vegetarian, though. I'd sure like to have more vegetarians around than just Shobhit and me, though. Sometimes it feels like others are either going out of their way or apologizing just four our sake. Two pizzas were brought last night and they both had pepperoni; fine by me, I need to ease up on my eating, and this helped me stick with the gnocchi. And potato chips. And a cookie.

Shobhit brought the potato chip bag into the theater, and kept crinkling the bag to reach in to eat. The other guy who is annoying did something similar a few months ago and annoyed Ryan so much that he turned and said back at him, "That's it, you can't eat in here anymore." No one acted annoyed with Shobhit, but I sure was self-conscious about it, and relieved when he fucking stopped eating out of that bag.

After the movie ended and we all parted ways, Shobhit and I went upstairs and watched the first episode of The Rings of Power's fourth season.

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Amy, on the Merchandising Enablement Team ("the MET"), is very pregnant, and will be startin her maternity leave in a couple of weeks. Today, Gabby threw her a lunchtime baby shower.

Our replacement for Beth, who previously led the Category Management team (now "Space Planning"), just started this week. Her name is Liana, and I was delighted to discover in Gabby's welcome email she sent out that she is a lesbian! For a split second I was like, Why didn't I know this already?, but of course, when else would I find out? It's not like Gabby was going to say in casual conversation, "By the way she's a lesbian." Also, queerness is far from uncommon around here. And we have many trans people, at least two of whom work here at the office—maybe more, for all I know; there are many who work from home most days. One person is named February in IT and I've totally been thinking that was an entirely new staff person for months, until I was on a Teams call a couple of weeks ago and learned only then that it was someone I recognized from IT but had no idea was transitioning: Ohhh, that's who that is!

Anyway, why did I bring up Liana? Oh! We had an extremely rare moment of everyone on our team being together in person today—including Anna, who was an intern last year and is going to be Amy's temp replacement; she's been training her for a while. So technically, the MET has eight permanent staff members, but currently there are nine with Anna here, and we got a photo taken of all of us during the baby shower lunch: Gabby, Cathryn, Brandy, Liana, Kevin, Mackenzie, Amy, Anna, and me. I don't even know whether all nine of us will ever be in the same room again, depending on whether Anna moves on to something else next year.

Gabby ordered MOTO pizza for us all to eat, so once again I had more food than I really needed to be consuming. That's delicious pizza, though, and Amy loves pizza. Cathryn also bought some bite-size candy bar wrappers that are blue and say "It's a boy!" I took just a few photos myself; between my photos and the few team photos that were taken, I'll wind up with only six or seven shots of this event, but it's not nothing!

Several other people were in attendance, including Adrienne, Fran, Lexis, Justine, Erik, a woman whose name I don't know, and a few others. I got into a fairly involved conversation with Justine and Adrienne about all the things I love about the Seattle Public Library, so that was cool. Gabby also had root beer floats ready to make for dessert, and she prepared several for people herself, including for me. It was a lovely lunch that Gabby did a great job with, including the decor.

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They're doing a weird rollout of season 4 of The Rings of Power: four episodes dropped last night; two will drop next week, and two the week after. Shobhit and I only had time to watch the first episode, and won't be able to continue until at least Sunday, depending on what time he gets back from Bellevue. Shobhit heads over there on Light Rail this afternoon, and is staying three nights in a hotel, for the annual Leather Reign conference. Even though he'll barely be out of town (not even out of the metro area), I guess you could say this is his solo trip for the year, and Las Vegas in January will be mine—although I am going there with Tracy.

In any case, I've got the next three days to myself. I have plenty planned, naturally. I'm taking myself to Steamworks tonight and to a movie tomorrow. Saturday will be a day in Federal Way: BYOB "Happy Hour" with Laney at her apartment in the afternoon; then likely going to Gabriel and Lea's for a movie watch afterward. It will add to the travel time significantly, but I think I will take transit, even though Shobhit is leaving the car behind as well. I'd rather not have to fill up the gas tank. A bus from Laney's to Gabriel's will take like half an hour but that's fine. It'll give me a chance to complain endlessly about how much Federal Way sucks, just like Gabriel does about Seattle when he comes into town!

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[posted 12:58pm]

the afterbook project

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— छह हज़ार एक सौ चौबीस —

Not much to catch you up on today. I took myself to a movie last night, Fatherland, which was the kind of movie I could tell was excellent but which I still didn't entirely get. I had no real complaints about it, though, and I kind of loved that it ran all of 82 minutes.

It was also showing at only SIFF Film Center at Seattle Center, so I walked over to Westlake Center after work and took the Monorail. I completely forgot that SIFF Cinema also shifted to discounted ticket prices on Tuesdays, so even though I had budgeted $12 for this, I only had to pay $7. So that was a delightful surprise, and something I really need to keep in mind the next time I need to see something that is only playing at SIFF Cinemas and I cannot use me AMC subscription to see.

The showtime was at 5:15. I worried slightly that it might be sold out, which has happened to me with other movies given a limited run at SIFF Film Center specifically; it's a fairly small theater. But, this movie has been there for several days, and there's a reason they discount tickets on Tuesdays. I'd say the theater was maybe a quarter full.

I took the Monorail back, and transferred over to a #12 on Pike rather than walking the rest of the way home, just to save myself some time and also read my new library book. I wrote the review after eating the dinner Shobhit had prepared (a sambar with tofu and more delicious deep fried puris), and later Shobhit and I watched a couple of episodes of Curb Your Enthusiasm. We're on season 10 now, which aired in January 2020, just before the pandemic, so there's no reference to it. But I have to say, even though it's still entertaining and making me laugh, this season so far has dipped a bit in quality. Until now I'd say the series got better as it went along, but after eight seasons every one to two years between 2000 and 2011, the series took a six-year break until season 9 aired in 2017; then another three-year break before season 10 in 2020. I'm impressed they retained so many of the same principal actors throughout, but it feels a tiny bit like they lost their groove.

There are two more seasons for us to watch after this, which aired in 2021 and in 2024. By that last one, Larry David was 76 years old; he started Curb Your Enthusiasm at age 53. (52 if you cound the Curb Your Enthusiasm TV movie that preceded the series in 1999. He also created Seinfeld, which premiered in 1989m when he was 42.) Larry David is 79 now, and actually recently aired a new show on HBO, called Life, Larry and the Pursuit of Unhappiness: an Almost History of America, which Shobhit and I also watched. It's a series of sketches reimagining significant events in early U.S. history, and it was a mixed bag, but we kept watching.

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Speaking of pandemics, I am now reading a novel recommended by Laney, called the Afterlife Project, by Tim Weed. Much like Ian McEwan's What We Can Know which I recently finished and was kind of disappointed by, it has two different narratives, this time regularly switching back and forth rather than in separated Parts. In one, a guy is navigating an Earth wilderness after being sent 10,000 years into the future; in the other, it's 2068 and a small sailing crew are looking for the last women rumored to be capable of giving birth, after a "hyperpandemic" has decimated most of the world's population—but not before climate change has already cause a global mass extinction of other species.

I only mention this because: this book is compelling me way more than the last one did, even though I'm only about 30 pages in so far. But, damn, between these two novels and Digger, I've about had my fill of dystopian post-climate-cataclysm worlds for the time being. My issue with What We Can Know was how it strained plausibility, but the idea of climate collapse within the next several decades does not. And I really need to read something with a bit more hope to it next.

There's also the idea of a pandemic wrought not by person to person contact, but by aerosolized microbes, as is what happens in the Afterlife Project. That idea is a little terrifying, though I have no idea how plausible it is. Let's ask Google!

"Highly improbable" seems to be the verdict. Whew! Okay, so why am I okay with this concept but not the water-covered world in What We Can Know ostensibly caused by tsunamis? Well, there's a big difference between improbable and implausible. They are close, but in one case here, it simply wouldn't happen; in the other, it's improbable but still possible. In the realm of science fiction, I'm willing to go that far. Otherwise why bother reading science fiction at all? (I suppose the plausibility of time travel is another discussion.)

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[posted 1:21pm]