buns out

04292025-27

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Yesterday I rode my bike home from work, taking a slight detour to the Central Library to return my checked-out DVD copy of the 2005 Pride & Prejudice. I made chai for Shobhit and myself once I got home, while Shobhit fried parathas to have with the last of the cabbage and potato dish he had made. Not my favorite, but edible. It didn't taste bad at all actually, and I don't often care for cabbage.

I spent the evening just chilling at home. This will make it the least eventful evening of my entire week. Tonight is Action Movie Night at the Braeburn Condos theater. Tomorrow will largely be at-home chilling as well, but I also need to do as much of the packing as I can for Friday. I work only half a day Friday, and hope to leave home in Shobhit's car by 1:00, if not sooner. Gabriel, Garret, Andy, Brian and I will all meet for drinks at a place in Gig Harbor before we all head to the AirBnB we're staying at on Fox Island. I hope to get there early enough to drive across the bridge and get out at the small park by its south end, and get some photos, before meeting for drinks.

Beyond that, of course, will be the entire weekend on Fox Island. I'm really looking forward to it. Given a choice I would have spaced it further apart from our trip to D.C., but it's okay. It was the one weekend in May that worked for all five of us. And it's good we didn't plan it for earlier because Gabriel got sick a couple of weeks ago. Honestly what I'm looking forward to is just a relaxing weekend in a serene, wooded island environment. That vibe is going to be way different from the vacation-bustle we're likely to have in D.C., which is also fine. I've got like 21 items on my checklist for that trip, so far. And that doesn't even include most of the World Pride events occurring the following weekend.

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05032025-27

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I don't have much else to tell you today. It's an unseasonably hot day, I guess I could mention that—forecast 82°. I could have worn shorts today, theoretically, except it was still 56° for my bike ride to work this morning. I wore my hoodie, which will be stuffed in my backpack for the ride home.

Oh. Speaking of my bike rides, I was a little shocked by something I saw yesterday riding home. I pulled up to the red light at Broad on Elliott, riding on Elliott due to my detour to the lirbary, and I looked to the left and was shocked to see basically a young woman's bare ass. She was walking along, in sunglasses, and otherwise wearing only a black two-piece thong bikini. Just this cool and calm, bare ass walking down the street.

If I had my phone handy I would have taken a picture of her from behind, just so I could send it to . . . let's say: my straight friend. It was one of the rare instances where I found myself thinking, if I were straight, I would find that incredibly hot. Hell, if a young man—a fit one, at least, and this woman was fit—were casually walking down the street in a thong, I'd probably just about cream my jeans. When it's not Pride and not along 4th Avenur or at Seattle Center, though, it's far less likely that a man would ever been seen like that in public anywhere, though. Granted it's not likely to see a woman like that either, but we still live in a world where something like that is more likely with a young woman than with a young man.

Either way, I saw her and though: Holy shit.

So I guess you could call that the highlight of my past 24 hours. And it was a hot woman!

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05032025-47

[posted 12:33pm]

D3LSOL

08112018-08

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I already posted yesterday about my Friday, my Saturday, and my Sunday—yesterday was a work holiday, so now all I have left to catch you up on is Monday. And I did two things, both of them with Laney, one of them with Shobhit as well.

The first one is tricky, in terms of Social Review points. Much like we had done with 28 Days Later and 28 Weeks Later on Saturday, instead of Laney coming over to watch in the Braeburn Condos theater, we simply coordinated viewing in our respective locations, and texted through the movie. This time we watched M3GAN. Laney is still getting over a cold that turned out to be pretty bad over the past week; she was really run down on Saturday and not up for going out. She wanted to keep our plan for Happy Hour last night, though, but was not up for going out to two different places—she was feeling better, but still run down, she said; she took a cold medicine that she knew would give her some energy for a couple of hours. I'll get back to that.

Anyway, I decided not to watch the movie in the theater downstairs this time. I figured Shobhit would enjoy M3GAN, and I was very much right. I had to sign up for a one-week trial of Starz through YouTube in order to see the movie without paying for it, and for the first time ever, I figured out how to log into the YouTube app on the Xfinity box, which allowed me to watch the movie via YouTube on the TV. As we had done with the movies on Saturday, I got on the phone with Laney briefly and we started playing on the count of three. We then texted, quite a bit, as the movie played. She told me later she enjoyed it a lot more than she was expecting to. Even I found the second half to be even campier—and thus funnier—than I remembered.

So, Laney clearly gets a Social Review point for this. But Shobhit? I would almost say this, except that I never give Shobhit a Social Review point for something we do at home, unless we have a guest over. Otherwise I might as well just give him a Social Review point for any time we happen to watch a movie or TV show at home together, which makes little sense. Had Laney come over, this would meant a Social Review point for him. But she did not, and I was the only one interacting with her over text during the movie. Shobhit never did. So: no Social Review point for him for this.

Not that it matters. Shobhit and I went for a walk shortly after noon, to the north end of Broadway and back, and also browsed a few stores on Broadway. He's dying to buy a kilt. I haven't brought up how many times over the years I have posted about how dumb I have historically thought utilikilts are—I don't want to "yuck his yum." If he likes them, then he should get one. I'd sooner walk down the street in a two-piece string bikini than wear one myself, but you know, tastes vary. Anyway, all that is beside the point here: I do give Shobhit a Social Review point when we go for a walk. So, he still gets a Social Review point for yesterday anyway.

Anyway! Shobhit made his own dinner yesterday because I was going out, and while he was chopping vegetables in the kitchen shortly after the movie ended, I heard him giggling to himself. I said, "Are you laughing about the movie or something else?" He said, "The movie." This was a pretty good indicator of how much he enjoyed it. Laney and I plan to see the sequel, M3GAN 2.0, on June 30. If Shobhit's available I think now he might actually want to come. With that in mind we might actually want to move it to Tuesday July 1 just so we can get the discount Tuesday ticket price, but this depends on whether he actually joins us or not.

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05252025-08

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So, not long after the movie finished—maybe forty minutes—I walked down to Broadway on Pine to meet with Laney, and do our first in-person social outing since we saw Things Like This (a not very good movie) on Tuesday last week. We actually sat next to each other unmasked at that movie, but so far at least, it doesn't seem she gave me whatever she had. I only recently fully recovered from the cold I had the week after my Birth Week myself; I was mostly recovered from it after a week but had this faint echo of it still detectable for a good two weeks after. It was only by the end of last week that I was truly feeling full normal again, even though I felt really close to normal for a week or two.

Anyway, Laney and I then walked the rest of the way, about four blocks, down to Pine and Summit, where we went to the new rooftop bar Cantina del Sol. Laney, Shobhit and I all went to this same space under its previous ownership in September 2021, when it was called Patio Cielo, above what was then called Mercado Luna. The restaurant space on the ground floor still isn't reopened; Laney said she heard that will happen in three or four months.

Here's the disappointing part. Cantina del Sol is so new, they have no Happy Hour at all. Their regular prices are a bit too much, but hey, they have to do what they have to do to stay in business on Capitol Hill I guess. They didn't even open until 5:00. I had a nachos dish for $15 and a margarita for $14.50. With tax and tip my total for just those two things came to $39.07. Normally I have two cocktails but that's also normally with Happy Hour prices; without that, a second coctail would have taken my total above $50. I liked coming in under budget at $39 much better.

I will say the nachos were very tasy. Laney also really liked the quesadillas she ordered. That said, we also agreed that our dishes were Happy Hour portions, but not Happy Hour prices. We really like the ambiance up there though, especially the new couch seating we sat in, so we'll be happy to go back one day. Hopefully when they actually have a Happy Hour. We were just so excited to see this new place opening as a rooftop bar, even though we'd already been to the actual space once before, we actually did some rearranging of our schedule to make it so we went here now. Well, Laney's cold was also a factor. At first we were going to walk down to Rainier Square for the Happy Hour at Fonté Bar and play ping pong at the tables on their terrace. But Laney had no energy for that; we rescheduled it for later this summer.

We didn't even stay longer than a couple of hours. It was nearly 7:00 when Laney said she was winding down. I was fully good with leaving anyway—neither of us had ordered anything more, and by that point we were basically just loitering anyway. At least it wasn't super busy so we weren't preventing anyone from grabbing any seats.

I walked home, and Shobhit was gone, at his first major rehearsal for a stage reading of a play he'll be doing next month. I was in bed before he got home. Although it took me a while to get to sleep thanks to some asshole playing really loud and awful music on the street below our windows. It's only at times like this that I fantasize about owning a gun. I had to shut the window just to cut the noise even a little. People with their blaring speakers in public places they have no business blaring them—on trains, on the street at 11 p.m. wherever—this happens a lot these days and they can all fuck right off. Have none of them heard of headphones?

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05252025-05

[posted 12:36pm]