the fruitcake enterprises social review—summer 2026

In the summer of 2026, I engaged in in-person or face-to-face virtual social interaction with the following people on the indicated number of days:

07272026-056 1. Shobhit—49 *
06272026-12 2. Laney—7
09072026-06 3. Alexia—6
08302026-14 4. Tracy—4
07032026-01 5. Karen—4
06202026-128 6. Ivan—3
08232026-28 7. Jennifer—2
08202026-07 8. Cathryn—3
08232026-17 9. Matthew—2
05012024-33 10. Tony—2 *
05012024-33 11. Jake—2 *
08232026-13 12. Hope—2
08232026-15 13. Chase—2
08232026-02 14. Ian—2
08202026-07 15. Gabby—2 **
08202026-07 16. Brandy—2 **
09122026-36 17. Danielle—1
06272026-73 18. Gabriel—1
05022026-94 19. Lea—1
06272026-76 20. Tess—1
21. Jessica—1
22. Berkley—1
23. Mandy—1
24. Amanda—1
25. David—1
26. Mike—1
27. Ryan—1
28. Leon—1 **
29. Noah—1 **
30. Mackenzie—2 **
31. Chris—2 *
32. Ryan—2 *
33. Daniel—2 *
34. Nicholai—2 *
35. Dave—1 **
36. Tristan—1 **
37. Ben—1 *
38. Derek—1 *
39. Andrew—1 *
40. Amy—1 **
41. Kevin—1 **
42. Anna—1 **
43. Benny—1 **
44. Tina—1 ***
45. Mere—1 ***
46. Dylan—1 ***

* Action Movie Night regulars

** At Merchandising Rainier Square Terrace Party [NOTE: Benny was at this party but not given a point for it, as I had no interaction at all with him there; but, I did go out for lunch once with him, Cathryn and Amanda]

*** PCC POS Admins I ate lunch with during an in-person POS meeting


Total days in the fall with social interaction: 59 (64.3%, a -0.9 percentage point change from spring)


. . . And of course there are two pretty glaringly obvious differences this quarter, even though in the end it did not change their usual respective chart positions: Shobhit has way more points than usual; Laney has way less. Shobhit's numbers were significantly bumped by the trip to the Netherlands and Belgium over the summer, 18 consecutive days that therefore gave him 18 points from that trip alone. Laney, sadly, hurt her back, and a result we haven't been able to hang out since mid-July (she did get one more point via a Facebook Video hangout a few weekends ago).

That said, looking at the spring numbers, neither of them are that different this time around. Okay, Shobhit at 49 points up from 35 last time is a pretty hefty jump, a forty percent increase—so, that still amounts to a huge change; it's just that he's always stratospherically ahead of anyone else regardless. Even in the winter he had 32 points, and Laney had 19. But, in the spring Laney dropped down to 9 points, a dramatic change, but not far out of line with the 7 points she got here—and she ranked #4 in the spring with 9 points and yet snagged the #2 spot with 7 points, barely putting Alexia's 6 points into third place. (Alexia ranked third in the spring as well, with 9 points; it was Ivan who came in third, also with 9 points—and this time he ranks sixth, with 3 points.) I nearly forgot what accounted for Laney's dramatic drop between winter and spring, and it was her tightened budget in the lead-up to moving out of her apartment: she canceled her AMC membership so we saw far fewer movies together; and she cut back on our Happy Hours as well. If it hadn't been for her back injury this time around, she almost certainly would have upticked this time. So much for that! I have a feeling this number will be steady for the foreseeable future, with her new apartment now in Federal Way. That's also a dramatic change from when she lived only six blocks away for two and a half years.

Tracy and Karen are pretty typically ranked; Karen often gets more than 4 points given our ostensibly biweekly Zoom lunches, but scheduling conflicts kind of regularly force her to cancel as well. And then Jennifer, who simply gets two points due to the two consecutive days we hung out due to her staying the night, sneaks into the #7 position. Her boyfriend Matthew gets into the top 10 for the same reason. And Cathryn is only ranked a bit lower than other 2-pointers with her 3 points because she barely qualified for a third with her brief appearance at the Merchandising Terrace Party.

The other pretty radical change from the usual is that any of the regulars at Action Movie Night, aside from Shobhit, got no more than two points this time around: because Action Movie Night only happened this time around. The projector broke down in late June, and Action Movie Night was saved by mid-September only thanks to Andrew buying a portable projector. And that became the only reason I would ever have watched The Will Kill You a second time.

Anyway, now for the who did what with whom where and when! (Side note on the Europe trip dates between July 25 and August 11: these include a lot of links to specific sections of blog posts about the activities, as well as Flickr photo albums and occasionally Bluesky posts. This took me some real time and effort to complete. I just hope someone appreciates it! Well, future me will, in any case.)

Sunday, June 21: with Shobhit and Ivan, chili for lunch at our place

Sunday, June 21: with Shobhit, Seattle Leather Daddy's Chili Cookoff at CC's

Tuesday, June 23: with Laney, and briefly with Shobhit, Happy Hour at The Tilted Table

Wednesday, June 24: with Shobhit, Tony, Jake, Ryan, Ben, Chris B, Daniel, and Nicholai, Action Movie Night Operation Condor

Friday, June 26: with Shobhit and Laney, Trans Pride Seattle

Friday, June 26: with Shobhit, World Cup "Pride Match" at the Pioneer Square Pedestrian Zone

Saturday, June 27: with Shobhit and Laney, PrideFest Capitol Hill

Saturday, June 27: with Shobhit, Indigiqueer Festival Seattle

Saturday, June 27: with Shobhit, Gabriel, Lea, Tess, Berkley, Janine, Mandy, David, Ryan, and more, Tess's Graduation Party

Sunday, June 28: with Shobhit, Laney, and Ivan, Seattle Pride Parade

Sunday, June 28: with Shobhit, TPS Pride After Party and PrideFest Seattle Center

Wednesday, July 1: with Shobhit, walking with me from work to 20/20 Cycle and then home

Thursday, July 2: with Shobhit, First Thursday Art Walk, plus Seattle Art Museum, in Pioneer Square

Friday, July 3: with Karen and Shobhit, lunch over Zoom

Friday, July 3: with Laney, BYOB Happy Hour at Myrtle Edwards Park

Friday, July 3: with Shobhit and Laney, sharing a cardamom knot at Cafe Hagen at Myrtle Edwards Park

Saturday, July 4: with Shobhit, 4th of July fireworks at South Lake Union Park

Sunday, July 5: with Alexia and later Shobhit, double feature at our place (Edge of Tomorrow and Palm Springs)

Monday, July 6: with Shobhit, out for a walk around Capitol Hill

Tuesday, July 7: with Shobhit, out for a walk to Broadway and back

Saturday, July 11: with Tracy, Tacoma Pride Festival, and out for dinner (The Matador)

Sunday, July 12: with Laney, Jessica and Mike, Happy Hour at Pono Ranch, then out for more drinks at Lock & Keel

Wednesday, July 15: with Shobhit, out for a walk to the Central Library, PCC Office, and back

Thursday, July 16: with Cathryn, Amanda, and Benny, out for lunch (Community Grocery & Teriyaki)

Friday, July 17: with Karen, lunch over Zoom

Saturday, July 18: with Tracy, to a movie (The Odyssey)

Thursday, July 23: with Amy, Tina, Mere, and Dylan, eating lunch on the Rainier Square Lower Terrace

Saturday, July 25: with Shobhit, hanging out at The Club SEA at SeaTac Airport; travel to layover in Iceland

Sunday, July 26: with Shobhit, flying to Amsterdam  

Monday, July 27: with Shobhit, first stop at De Laatste Kruimel; Van Gogh Museum; Stedelijk Museum; Moco Museum; Rijksmuseum; Cuypers Library; Royal Palace of Amsterdam; bike garage at Amsterdam Centraal Station; A'dam Lookout observation deck; Luminair rooftop bar at the Doubletree by Hilton Amsterdam; Red Light District

Tuesday, July 28: with Shobhit, National Holocaust Names Monument; Hortus Botanicus; NEMO Museum Rooftop Square; Hotel Jakarta lobby and sharing cake at Westers Bakery; OBA Oosterdok - Public Library; sharing frites at We Are EDN at the Doubletree by Hilton Amsterdam; Mokumboot Canal Tour; W Lounge rooftop bar (just walking around); Naked Night at Spijkerbar

Wednesday, July 29: with Shobhit, Waterlooplein Market; Rembrandt House Museum; Museum of the Canals; cruising at De Oeverlanden Park; Homomonument monument

Thursday, July 30: with Shobhit, day trip to Rotterdam: Euromast observation tower; Spido Harbour Tour; Fenix Museum and Erasmusbrug; lunch at Tofu Heaven in Markthal (Market Hall); Cube House Museum; Rotterdam Central Library

Friday, July 31: with Shobhit, day trip to the Hague: Royal Library of the Netherlands; Peace Palace; lunch at Zebedeüs; touring Den Haagse Toren (The Hague Tower) at St. James Church. Back in Amsterdam: Tony's Chocolonely Super Store

Saturday, August 1: with Shobhit, Gaap, Daniel, and Darius, World Pride Canal Parade

Sunday, August 2: with Shobhit, pastry at De Laatste Kruimel second location so we could use the bathroom; Anne Frank House Museum; Dam Square Main Stage World Pride Street Party; Trans Made Market; return to Dam Square Street party; walking through street of gay clubs on Reguliersdwarsstraat

Monday, August 3: with Shobhit, EuroStar train ride to Brussels; walking tour of Brussels; browsing chocolate shops in Brussels

Tuesday, August 4: with Shobhit, The Atomium; Royal Palace of Brussels; St. Michael and St. Gudula Cathedral; sharing frites at Fritland; The Beerlab Rooftop above the Belgian Beer World Experience; Belgian waffle at Maison des Gaufes; shopping chocolate shops

Wednesday, August 5: with Shobhit, Palace of Justice; touring European Parliament Hemicycle; Royal Library of Belgium and KBR Museum; hot chocolate at Laurent Gerbaud Chocolatier; shoppin for chocolates; Muntpunt Library; walk around Brussels

Thursday, August 6: with Shobhit, EuroStar train ride back to Amsterdam; World Pride Village; dinner at Choux

Friday, August 7: with Shobhit, stroopwafels from Stroopwafel World; hanging out in Amsterdam

Saturday, August 8: with Shobhit, breakfast at De Laatste Kruimel; Heineken Experience gift shop; long walk to the World Pride March; dinner at Demetra (dine in); walking canals of Jordaan neighborhood; second dinner at La Zoccola del Pacioccone (takeout)

Sunday, August 9: with Shobhit, another walk through Red Light District

Monday, August 10: with Shobhit, lunch at Zero Zero; stroopwafel from Hans Egstorf; sharing frites at De Bijenkorf cafeteria; dinner at Terrazen Centre; Dutch pancake from Dutch Pancake Masters

Tuesday, August 11: with Shobhit, apple turnover from Hans Egstorf; hanging out at airport lounge at Amsterdam Schiphol Airport; flying home to Seattle

Wednesday, August 12: with Shobhit, Freedom Plane: Documents That Forged a Nation exhibit at MOHAI; out for lunch at Mayuri in South Lake Union

Saturday, August 15: with Shobhit, Alki Beach Pride

Monday, August 17: with Karen, lunch over Zoom

Thursday, August 20: with Gabby, Cathryn, Kevin, Brandy, and Mackenzie, team Happy Hour at The Nest

Saturday, August 22: with Shobhit, Jennifer, Matthew, Hope, Chase, and Ian, Jennifer & family weekend visit; and out for dinner (Tutta Bella)

Sunday, August 23: with Shobhit, Jennifer, Matthew, Hope, Chase, and Ian, pancake breakfast and Trivial Pursuit in the Braeburn kitchen; and Afternoon Tea at the Queen Mary Tea Room

Monday, August 24: with Shobhit and Alexia, out for dinner (Coconut Thai in Issaquah)

Sunday, August 30: with Laney, catching up on Messenger Video

Sunday, August 30: with Tracy, Art in the Dahlias at Bainbridge Island Farm, and out for dinner at Veggie Grill

Wednesday, September 2: with Shobhit, to a movie (The Odyssey)

Thursday, September 3: with Shobhit, First Thursday Art Walk in Pioneer Square

Saturday, September 5: with Shobhit, out for a walk to Pike Place Market and back

Sunday, September 6: with Shobhit, out for a walk through Capitol Hill and to Lower Queen Anne

Monday, September 7: with Alexia, lunch and puzzling at my place

Monday, September 7: with Shobhit and Alexia, more lunch, watching Europe trip slideshow, and touring renovated Braeburn terraces

Monday, September 7: with Shobhit, out for a walk up 15th and back on Broadway

Thursday, September 10: with Shobhit, Capitol Hill Art Walk

Friday, September 11: with Karen, lunch over Zoom

Friday, September 11: with Shobhit, out for dinner (Shake Shack)

Saturday, September 12: with Alexia, out for breakfast (Mirabelle by Orphée) and Architecture Tour ("The City & the Sound: Seattle's Waterfront")

Saturday, September 12: with Danielle, out for dinner and hanging out at her place

Sunday, September 13: with Shobhit and Alexia, movie watch at our place (Practical Magic)

Sunday, September 13: with Alexia, to a movie (Practical Magic 2)

Sunday, September 13: with Shobhit, Alexia, and Ivan, brief hangout with Ivan at our place

Tuesday, September 15: with Shobhit, to a movie (The Cycle of Love)

Wednesday, September 16: with Shobhit, Tony, Jake, Ryan, Chris B, Derek, Andrew, Daniel, and Nicholai, Action Movie Night (They Will Kill You)

Thursday, September 17: with Gabby, Cathryn, Amy, Anna, Brandy, Mackenzie, Noah, Leon, Dave, Tristan, and more, Merchandising Terrace Party

Friday, September 18: with Shobhit, Artist Talk with Kathryn Bilharz Gabriel at N°85 Gallery

Saturday, September 19: with Tracy, takeout lunch at Owen Beach, Point Defiance Park

the fruitcake enterprises social review—spring 2026

In the spring of 2026, I engaged in in-person or face-to-face virtual social interaction with the following people on the indicated number of days:

04112026-46 1. Shobhit—35 *
04112026-10 2. Ivan—9 *
04112026-11 3. Alexia—9 *
03282026-087 4. Laney—9 *
05232026-47 5. Gabriel—6 *
05022026-66 6. Barbara—5 *
04292026-29 7. Karen—5
05012024-33 8. Tony—4 **
05012024-33 9. Jake—4 **
10302024-18 10. Daniel—4 **
04242026-26 11. Tracy—2 *
04252026-22 12. Lea—2 *
05012024-33 13. Ryan—3 **
05012024-33 14. Derek—3 **
10302024-18 15. Chris—2 **
10302024-18 16. Andrew—2 **
10302024-18 17. Greg—2 **
05022026-85 18. Jennifer—1 *
05022026-67 19. Dad—1 *
05022026-92 20. Danielle—1 *
04262026-12 21. Lynn—1 *
02272026-01 22. Claudia—1
04262026-12 23. Zephyr—1 *
04272026-13 24. Valerie—1 *
05052026-15 25. Gabby—1 *
26. Jessica—1 *
27. Amanda—1
28. Cathryn—1
29. Nick—1 *
30. Tess—1
31. Ben—1 **
32. Ayn—1 ****
33. Tonja—1 ****
34. Nia—1 ****
35. Trisha—1 ****
36. Berkeley—1
37. Craig—1 ***
38. Dylan—1 ***

* Birth Week participant

** Regular attendee at Action Movie Night

*** Irregular attendee at Action Movie Night

**** Broker lunch


Total days in the fall with social interaction: 60 (65.2%, a -4.8 percentage point change from winter)


. . . Well! What a delight my social life in the spring of 2026 was! Just a couple days fewer than winter with social interaction overall, but the spread is unusually fantastic—with one notable exception (I really need to find ways to spend more time with Danielle), this is closer to an ideal spread across all my friends than it has been in ages. True, Laney took a nosedive in actual points, with 9 now compared to 19 in the winter, but this was an expected byproduct of her budget tightening in the lead-up to moving out of her apartment, which meant seeing far fewer movies with me and cutting back just a bit on the frequency of our Happy Hours. On the other hand, that tally of 9 points tied her with both Alexia and Ivan, both of whom I had to rank above her just because I spent so many full days with both Ivan and Alexia (Whidbey Island; Tulip Festival).

Between Laney backing off and Ivan returning with a vengeance due to his moving to Edmonds for a job (we'll see how long that lasts), Ivan still surprised by managing to take the #2 spot. But in retrospect, it makes sense, as he came down to stay at our place for slightly varying numbers of days each time we got together: three nights when he joined us for the day trip Whidbey Island; two nights when he joined us for the Tulip Festival; one night during my Birth Week; another two nights this weekend for the Fremont Solstice Parade and Fair.

Alexia is fairly holding steady, though even she gained two points over last quarter, she remains in the #3 position just as she was before. But Gabriel is another one who really reared up from behind: I hung out with him twice during my Birth Week; we got together to see The Mandalorian and Grogu, and then the three-day weekend on Lummi Island really made the difference, doubling the amount of points he'd have otherwise. (Gabriel is the one person I know who would go out of his way to declare how stupid my Social Review is to begin with, ironically.)

Karen had 7 points last time, ranking at #4 then; this time she's at #7 with 5 points, but more in line with our typical amount of time spent together, only further down the list than usual thanks to the likes of Ivan and Gabriel.

It's the fact that I missed not one, but two Action Movie Nights this quarter that pushes all the regulars in that group further down the rankings than usual. Tony would have had six points, for example, if not for my needing to skip Action Movie Night during my Birth Week—the day that Barbara arrived—and then missing Action Movie Night the week of my bike accident, because I was stuck in the ICU. So, I attended four Action Movie Nights instead of six.

And last but hardly least, I certainly can't forget about Barbara! She used to dominate the Social Review, back in the 2000s, the way Laney had for the last couple of years—even more so; sometimes she even used to beat Shobhit! She hasn't lived here since 2010 (I've been doing these Social Reviews since 2002), but we also flew her out for my 50th birthday, and she was here for five days, thus giving her 5 points on the Social Review but, amazingly, still ranking lower than Alexia or even Gabriel! She participated in all the Birth Week stuff I did while she was here, and I sure loved having her. I do hope the next time I see her is when I can finally fly out to visit her in Louisville again. Luckily she's far happier in the subsidized housing she's in there than Laney turned out to be at Pride Place here in Seattle; Laney is much happier back in her van with the ability to drive to quieter neighborhoods to spend the night.

Anyway, now for the who did what with whom where and when!

Saturday, March 21: with Shobhit and Ivan, Ivan spending the night

Sunday, March 22: with Shobhit, Ivan, and Alexia, day trip through Whidbey Island (Washington Park Loop, Anacortes; Deception Pass / State Park; lunch at Sunshine drip; Coupeville & Price Sculpture Forest; Fort Casey State Park; Greenbank Farm), out for dinner at Tandoori Flame & Indian Grill

Monday, March 23: with Shobhit and Ivan, last evening at our place

Monday, March 23: with Shobhit, Seattle Leather Artists' Media Show at Vermillion

Tuesday, March 24: with Laney, BYOB Happy Hour at Olympia Coffee, US Bank Center

Friday, March 27: with Karen, lunch over Zoom

Saturday, March 28: with Laney, East Link Connection / Crosslake Connection Light Rail stations tour

Sunday, March 29: with Claudia, hanging out in Port Orchard

Monday, March 30: with Shobhit, walking home from work

Wednesday, April 1: with Shobhit, Tony, Jake, Ryan, Derek, and Daniel, Action Movie Night (Trailer Park of Terror)

Thursday, April 2: with Laney, to a movie (The Drama)

Saturday, April 4: with Shobhit and Laney, double feature at our place (Nebraska and Downsizing)

Monday, April 6: with Shobhit, walking home from work

Tuesday, April 7: with Shobhit, walking home from work

Friday, April 10: with Karen, lunch over Zoom

Friday, April 10: with Shobhit, Alexia, and Ivan, movie night at our place (The Devil Wears Prada)

Saturday, April 11: with Shobhit, Alexia, and Ivan, Tulip Festival 2026, and Little Mountain Park

Sunday, April 12: with Tracy, Dune Peninsula, Point Defiance Park, Tacoma

Wednesday, April 15: with Shobhit, Tony, Jake, Chris B, Derek, Greg, and Daniel, Action Movie Night (The Pentagon Wars)

Saturday, April 18: with Shobhit, East Link Extension / Crosslake Connection 2026 Redux

Sunday, April 19: with Shobhit, out for breakfast (Portage Bay Cafe, Roosevelt Way)

Tuesday, April 21: with Shobhit, out for a walk up 15th & back on Broadway

Wednesday, April 22: with Ayn, Tonja, Nia, and Trisha, out for lunch (Mendocino Farms)

Friday, April 24: with Tracy, out for dinner (Cafe Arta at Third Place Books)

Saturday, April 25: with Gabriel, out for lunch (takeout on Bremerton waterfront)

Saturday, April 25: with Jennifer, Mason County Senior Activities Center, out for dinner (Shelton Thai Cuisine in Shelton), and staying the night at their place in Union

Sunday, April 26: with Lynn and Zephyr, Erector Set in Downtown Everett, out for lunch (Scuttlebutt Brewing), and Surf II on the Everett waterfront

Monday, April 27: with Shobhit and Valerie, out for lunch at George's in Kirkland, out for dessert at Kirkland Bakery, and walking the Public Path along the lake

Monday, April 27: with Shobhit, Starbucks at Pike Place Market

Tuesday, April 28: with Alexia, picnic at Central Park in the the Issaquah Highlands surrounded by the "Issaquah Alps""

Wednesday, April 29: with Shobhit and Barbara, Ballard Avenue Landmark District

Wednesday, April 29: with Shobhit, Barbara, and Ivan, dinner at our place and Barbara (in the guest room) and Ivan (in the Guest Suite) staying the night (including watching a movie with Shobhit and Ivan (Dust Bunny))

Thursday, April 30: with Shobhit, Barbara, and Ivan, Olallie State Park, and out for dessert (Berna's Bakery & Cafe in Issaquah)

Friday, May 1: with Laney and Barbara, picnic at Freeway Park, then coffee and tea at Olympia Coffee in the US Bank Center lobby

Friday, May 1: with Shobhit and Barbara, Barbara staying at our place

Saturday, May 2: with Shobhit and Barbara, Providence St. Peter Hospital, Olympia

Saturday, May 2: with Shobhit, Danielle, Gabriel, Lea, Barbara, Laney, Jessica, and many family members, my 50th birthday celebration

Sunday, May 3: with Shobhit, Dad, and Barbara, Mima Mounds Natural Area Preserve

Tuesday, May 5: with Shobhit, Gabby and Nick, "Cinco de Matthew" birthday dinner at Gabby and Nick's house in Edmonds

Wednesday, May 6: with Amanda and Cathryn, out for lunch at Freya Bakery & Cafe

Wednesday, May 6: with Alexia, to a movie (The Devil Wears Prada 2)

Friday, May 8: with Karen, lunch over FaceTime

Saturday, May 9: with Shobhit, SIFF Industry Event in the rooftop lounge and terrace at Arrivé Apartments

Tuesday, May 12: with Laney, to a movie (The Sheep Detectives)

Wednesday, May 13: with Shobhit, Tony, Jake, Ryan, Craig, Chris B, Andrew, Derek, Daniel, and Dylan, Action Movie Night (April X)

Thursday, May 14: with Shobhit, Capitol Hill Art Walk

Saturday, May 16: with Shobhit and Alexia, putting together puzzles at her place, and out for dinner (Maharaja Issaquah)

Sunday, May 17: with Shobhit, out for a walk to Pike Place, Pier 62, and Myrtle Edwards Park; then to a SIFF movie (Body Blow)

Monday, May 18: with Laney, BYOB Happy Hour at Barnes & Noble

Thursday, May 21: with Gabriel, Lea, Tess, and Berkeley, out for dinner (Agave Cocina & Cantina) and then to a movie (Star Wars: The Mandalorian and Grogu)

Friday, May 22: with Gabriel, out for lunch (Train Wreck Bar & Grill in Bellingham), arrival at Lummi Island, walking Sunset Beach, visiting Full Bloom Farm Stand, and hanging out at Bula Beach House AirBnB

Saturday, May 23: with Gabriel, labyrinth at Lummi Island Congregational Church, out for lunch (The Galley), hiking Baker Preserve Trail, out for dinner (Beach Store Cafe), and sitting by the fire at Bula Beach House

Sunday, May 24: with Gabriel, visiting the closed Willows Inn, out for lunch (Saigon Cafe in Bellingham), and returning fron Lummi Island

Wednesday, May 27: with Shobhit and Alexia, visiting me in the hospital

Wednesday, May 27: with Shobhit and Karen, visiting me in the hospital

Saturday, May 30: with Alexia, Double Feature at my place (When Harry Met Sally and Four Weddings and a Funeral), and takeout dinner (Aviv Hummus Bar)

Sunday, May 31: with Alexia, to a movie (The Mandalorian and Grogu)

Wednesday, June 3: with Shobhit, walking with me downtown before my movie

Thursday, June 4: with Shobhit, Pioneer Square First Thursday Art Walk

Saturday, June 6: with Shobhit, Seattle Pride in the Park at Volunteer Park

Sunday, June 7: with Shobhit, to a play (Frida . . . a Self-Portrait at Union Arts Center)

Wednesday, June 10: with Shobhit, Tony, Jake, Ryan, Ben, Daniel, and Andrew Action Movie Night (For a Few Dollars More)

Saturday, June 13: with Shobhit, drive to Whistler, B.C., Train Wreck Trail, hot tubbing at Sundial Hotel, and out for dessert (Peak Pies)

Sunday, June 14: with Shobhit, Blackcomb Gondola, Peak 2 Peak Gondola, Cloudraker Skybridge, Whistler Village Gondola, and anniversary dinner at Araxi

Monday, June 15: with Shobhit, walking Whistler Village, Brandywine Falls Park, and Shannon Falls Park

Tuesday, June 16: with Laney, to a movie (Disclosure Day)

Friday, June 19: with Karen, lunch over Zoom

Friday, June 19: with Ivan, to a movie (Leviticus)

Saturday, June 20: with Ivan, Fremont Solstice Parade and Fair, and out for dinner (Annapurna)