the fruitcake enterprises social review—spring 2022

In the spring of 2022, I engaged in in-person or face-to-face virtual social interaction with the following people on the indicated number of days:

06122022-012 1. Shobhit: 28
06042022-25 2. Alexia: 11
05282022-10 3. Laney: 9
06012022-04 4. Tracy: 6
04282022-05 5. Ivan: 6
10142021-01 6. Karen: 5
03252022-58 7. Barbara: 4
04262022-01 8. Gabriel: 3
10312021-109 9. Sachin: 3
06182022-23 10. Jennifer: 2
05072022-50 11. Lea: 2
05142022-21 12. Hope: 2
05142022-51 13. Matthew: 2
04102022-018 14. Laurie: 2
05072022-23 15. Dad: 1
05022022-20 16. Danielle: 1
05012022-07 17. Valerie: 1
05072022-01 18. Sherri: 1
05042022-38 19. Lynn: 1
05032022-35 20. Shauna: 1
05112022-01 21. Elin: 1
05112022-01 22. Scott: 1
05042022-47 23. Zephyr: 1
06132021-22 24. Evan: 1
06132021-22 25. Elden: 1
Matthew and Shobhit 26. Abhishek: 1
11232018-10 27. Vinaya: 1
05022022-10 28. Morgan: 1
05022022-28 29. Rylee: 1
04052022-01 30. Jessica: 1
06102022-08 31. Harshal: 1
05252022-01 32. Irasema: 1
05292021-05 33. Kimberly: 1
04102022-035 34. Shelley: 1
11252017-15 35. Ishita: 1
04102022-017 36. Carl: 1
04062022-03 37. Mary: 1
12032020-35 38. Marianne: 1
04102020-04 39. John: 1
09292018-03 40. Sachin's mom: 1
05302022-01 41. Vinaya's mom: 1

Total days in the spring with social interaction: 56 (60.9%, a +18.7 percentage point change from winter)


. . . Damn! Holy shit did my social activities skyrocket this quarter compared to the last—for nearly every three days over the past three months, I did some kind of socializing during two of them. Not only have I not socialized this much since before the pandemic, I haven't had overall numbers this high since the fall of 2018.

There are two notable contributions to this fact: in addition to my Birth Week—which alway ups the numbers for the spring quarter by default—I took not one, but two four-night trips out of state: visiting Barbara in Louisville in late March; and going to Victoria with Shobhit last weekend. Since every day of a trip with or visiting someone out of town counts toward the Social Review (and always has), those two trips combined alone added eight days to the number of days in which I socialized, on top of the ten for my Birth Week—plus another three total "make-up days" that had to be rescheduled for it later.

Then, of course, Alexia, Laney, Tracy, Ivan, and Karen all have several points each, cumulatively contributing a significant amount to my social life. Ivan's six points were almost a surprise, given that he officially moved out by May 1, and by then he'd only racked up three points. But, because I also count every day of an out-of-town visitor at our place, after he stayed two nights (and three days) when he returned briefly from British Columbia and then flew out to Pennsylvania, that last visit doubled his points.

Alexia continues to dominate the #2 spot, with the very same number of points (11) that she earned last quarter. Laney jumped up significantly from 5th place with 4 points, to 3rd place with 9 points. She'll probably pull similar numbers over summer and then lower again over fall as we'll then be back to monthly (or maybe twice-monthly) virtual Happy Hours while she's back on the road for her retirement travels. Tracy's and Karen's respective spots are fairly typical these days. It will be interesting to see how things with Tracy go going forward, now that she no longer works at PCC—she left after only a bit more than two years with us. But, we already have plans both this week and next week, with a slight possibility of two things next week.

I do love that Barbara, who seriously dominated the #1 spot for many years in the early days, is back on the list. She won't be again for at least another couple of years, probably. But it was pretty awesome to experience how she really is the kind of friend I could see for the first time in eleven years and we just pick right up from where we left off, as though we'd never been apart. No awkwardness between her and me, which I love.

I'm kind of bummed Danielle has only one point. She should have more than that. I'll have to see if I can't do better with her over the summer. I'd say the same about Gabriel, but he is always a wildcard when it comes to how often we hang out. I sort of got lucky to get to see him even three days over the spring (albeit one of them being virtual, while I was in Louisville watching the Oscars with Barbara).

All the rest are fairly random, but the number of people I hung out with over the course of spring nearly doubled, from 23 to 41. It's like things are starting to look sort of normal again. So, let's get to the who did what with whom where and when!



Thursday, March 24: with Barbara, out for dinner (Porch Kitchen & Bar) and checking out my hotel room in Louisville

Friday, March 25: with Barbara, day trip to Indianapolis (Crown Hill Cemetery; walking the Canal Walk; Soldiers & Sailors Monument Observatory; Highland Park; late lunch at Three Carrots in Fountain Square); Ashland Park at dusk in Indiana from the other side of the Ohio River on our way back

Saturday, March 26: with Barbara, wishbone sculpture at the Speed Art Museum; day trip to Cincinnati (Over-the-Rhine and Findlay Market; walk to Washington Park; Bellevue Hill Park; lunch at City View Tavern; World Peace Bell in Newport, KY)

Sunday, March 27: with Barbara, day in Louisville (brunch at Copper & Kings Distillery; Falls of the Ohio State Park; Cave Hill Cemetery)

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Sunday, March 27: with (in person) and (virtually) Shobhit, Gabriel and Lea, Oscar Party

Friday, April 1: with Karen, lunch over FaceTime

Sunday, April 3: with Laney, movie watch at my place (Turning Red)

Tuesday, April 5: with Laney and Jessica, Happy Hour at La Cocina Oaxaqueña

Wednesday, April 6: with Mary, Marianne, John and more, Mary's 20th anniversary lunch

Wednesday, April 6: with Ivan, to a movie (You Won't Be Alone)

Thursday, April 7: with Shobhit and Tracy, to a movie (Everything Everywhere All at Once)

Friday, April 8: with Alexia, movie night at her place (Moonstruck)

Saturday, April 9: with Shobhit, out for brunch at Zylberschtein's Delicatessen & Bakery

Sunday, April 10: with Shobhit, day trip to Whidbey Island and Skagit Valley

Sunday, April 10: with Shobhit, Laurie and Carl, visit at Laurie and Carl's place Langley

Sunday, April 10: with Shobhit and Shelley, visit at Shelley's place in Freeland

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Sunday, April 10: with Shobhit, South Whidbey State Park; Fort Casey State Park; Fort Ebey State Park; viewing the tulip fields

Sunday, April 10: with Shobhit, Sachin, Sachin's mom and Kimberly, dinner at their place

Tuesday, April 12: with Tracy. to a movie (The Batman)

Saturday, April 16: with Alexia, movie night at her place (Jurassic Park)

Monday, April 25: with Karen, lunch over FaceTime

Wednesday, April 27: with Tracy, to a movie  (The Northman)

Thursday, April 28: with Shobhit, Ivan and Alexia, out for dinner (Marrakesh Seattle)

Friday, April 29: with Tracy, Sounder Commuter Train to Tacoma; out for dinner (Wendy's Vietnamese Restaurant); walk to Foss Waterway

Saturday, April 30: with Shobhit, Lake Whatcom Railway

Saturday, April 30: with Shobhit, Ivan and Alexia, out for dinner (Saffron Grill)

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Sunday, May 1: with Valerie, Northwest Railway Museum

Monday, May 2: with Danielle, Morgan and Rylee, out for dinner (Melrose Grill) and hanging out in Renton / their place

Tuesday, May 3: with Shobhit, First Hill Streetcar and picnic lunch in Occidental Park

Tuesday, May 3: with Shobhit and Shauna, picnic dinner (Heritage Park in Lynnwood)

Wednesday, May 4: with Shobhit, Washington State History Museum Model Railroad Exhibit)

Wednesday, May 4: with Shobhit, Lynn and Zephyr, out for dinner (The Old Spaghetti Factory in Lynnwood)

Friday, May 6: with Alexia, riding Sound Transit Light Rail and out for dinner (Casa Patron)

Saturday, May 7: with Dad and Sherri, hanging out at their place

Saturday, May 7: with Dad, Birth Week Bike Ride (Willapa Hills Trail, South Bend to Raymond; coffee, chai and cookies (Elixir Coffee Shop)

Saturday, May 7: with Gabriel and Lea, Auburn Environmental Park and and West Hylebos Wetlands

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Monday, May 9: with Gabriel, out or drinks (Barrio Mexican Kitchen & Agave Bar [outdoor seating])

Tuesday, May 10: with Shobhit, to a movie (Doctor Strange in the Multiverse of Madness)

Wednesday, May 11: with Scott and Elin, out for lunch (Saffron Grill)

Friday, May 13: with Karen, lunch over FaceTime

Friday, May 13: with Laney: May Happy Hour at Volunteer Park

Saturday, May 14: with Jennifer and Hope, Kitsap Live Steamers

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Saturday, May 14: with Jennifer, Hope and Matthew: High Steel and Vance Creek Bridges; drinks and paninis for dinner and staying the night at their place

Sunday, May 15: with Jennifer, Hope and Matthew, breakfast at their place

Sunday, May 15: with Laney, movie watch at my place (Paddington)

Sunday, May 15: with Shobhit, Sachin, Sachin's mom and Kimberly, dinner at their place

Thursday, May 19: with Tracy, out for dinner (Mamnoon) and to a movie (Downton Abbey: A New Era)

Friday, May 20: with Shobhit, Evan and Elden, out for dinner (The Cheesecake Factory, Southcenter Mall)

Saturday, May 21: with Alexia, double feature in The Braeburn Condos theater (The Lost World: Jurassic Park and Jurassic Park III)

Sunday, May 22: with Alexia, out for a walk

Monday, May 23: with Shobhit, out for drinks (Diesel)

Tuesday, May 24: with Shobhit, out for drinks (Diesel)

Wednesday, May 25: with Irasema, out for lunch (Pub 70)

Friday, May 27: with Karen, lunch over FaceTime

Friday, May 28: with Shobhit and Alexia, movie night at our place (Jurassic World)

Saturday, May 28: with Laney, walking South Ship Canal Trail and out for lunch (Zeek's Pizza)

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Sunday, May 29: with Laney, movie watch at my place (Paddington 2)

Monday, May 30: with Shobhit, Abhishek, Vinaya, Vinaya's mom and Ishita, lunch at Abhishek and Vinaya's place

Wednesday, June 1: with Laurie, farewell at Columbia City store

Wednesday, June 1: with Tracy, out for dinner (Nordstrom Café) and to a movie (Top Gun Maverick)

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Thursday, June 2: with Shobhit and Ivan, Ivan spending the night

Friday, June 3: with Shobhit and Ivan, out for dinner (Pho' Than Brothers) and out for dessert (Pie Bar) and Ivan spending the night

Saturday, June 4: with Ivan, hanging out at my place before he left for Pennsylvania in the evening

Saturday, June 4: with Alexia, Seattle Pride in the Park at Volunteer Park

Saturday, June 4: with Shobhit and Alexia, movie night at our place (Jurassic World: Fallen Kingdom)

Sunday, June 5: with Shobhit and Laney, movie watch at our place (Scream (1996))

Thursday, June 9: with Shobhit and Alexia, to a movie (Jurassic World Dominion)

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Friday, June 10: with Karen, lunch over FaceTime

Friday, June 10: with Shobhit an Harshal, out for dinner (Cactus Alki Beach) and walking Alki Beach

Saturday, June 11: with Laney, Happy Hour at Volunteer Park

Sunday, June 12: with Shobhit, trip to Victoria; Victoria Butterfly Gardens; Butchart Gardens; Fairways Hotel on the Mountain

Monday, June 13: with Shobhit, Goldstream Falls; Malahat Skywalk in Malahat; Niagara Falls in Goldstream Provincial Park; Mount Tolmie Park; out for lunch (New York Fries) at Hillside Shopping Centre; Beacon Hill Park; Ogden Point Breakwater

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Tuesday, June 14: with Shobhit, Parliament Building tour; Royal BC Museum;  walking Victoria waterfront and downtown; Beacon Hill Park; Afternoon Tea at the Empress Hotel; Market Square

Wednesday, June 15: with Shobhit, trip home from Victoria

Sunday, June 19: with Laney, movie watch at my place (Scream 2)